Christine Cardon and NLP Fully Exposed

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Yes she was a good looking girl back then, but it is not time and age (or an unfortunate haircut) that have changed her, no, much darker forces have made her an ugly person inside.
After some investigation I have found there is indeed a dark side to NLP, it is in fact a brainwashing cult. Christine has been hypnotised, a process that disconnects the victim from reality and stops any sense of feeling, compassion or empathy to other human beings. In fact she is so brain washed she will proudly tell how she doesn’t care at all for people. Her actions nearly drove me to suicide, she didn’t notice or care and then refused to talk about it.
 

So What Is NLP?

Neuro-Linguistic Programming is a pseudo-science fake branch of psychology dreamt up by Richard Bandler and John Grinder in California, USA in the 1970s. Bandler also made up other systems named Design Human Engineering (DHE) and Neuro Hypnotic Repatterning (NHR).

Pseudoscience separates itself from ordinary science based mainly on the element of falsifiability. Claims of a scientific nature must be tested in a way that makes it possible to be proven wrong, and NLP avoids that by being the practice of ‘doing what works’ – which makes it unfalsifiable. If a practitioner has an ineffective interaction with a client, it can be disregarded as “just not right for them”.


All attempts to produce reliable results for NLP’s core tenets using scientific means have produced negative results. NLP is to psychology what astrology is to astronomy.
 
 

As there is no overall governing body for NLP it has been taught in a variety of formats that involve the promotion of associations and the attainment of course certificates. Course lengths and style vary from institute to institute. Many include the use of hypnosis techniques. The Guardian newspaper in the United Kingdom reported that in 2006 a seven-day course by TV hypnotist Paul McKenna’s company for 600 delegates produced £1m in revenue.

Paul McKenna

What does it take to become an “NLP Practitioner”?

 
King Louis NLP Practitioner

An NLP Practitioner is “qualified” to “teach” NLP to others. In order to become one simply pay the fee, turn up at the course and collect your certificate.  In 2009, a British television presenter was able to register his pet cat as a member of the British Board of Neuro Linguistic Programming (BBNLP).

So it’s a lucrative con and it doesn’t work, other than the placebo effect of making the person think that they are doing something positive, but is it harmful?

Is NLP Harmful?

If you type that into Google you will be bombarded with results telling you not. They are all on the websites of the “institutions” selling NLP training so you should of course not be surprised that they draw that conclusion. But why so much effort to drown out the criticism? My interest here is that I have seen first-hand what damage has been done to Christine so I feel compelled to warn others of the danger NLP poses. If just one person reads this and it helps them decide not to get involved in NLP then it will have been worthwhile. 

Part of the evil genius of Bandler is to convince the victim that they experiencing success through NLP. This is achieved through brainwashing by hypnotism. Hypnotism produces real changes in how the brain works. The most disturbing is the metaphoric detachment of the front area of the brain from the rest. This is the area that controls decision making, problem solving, emotions, and consciousness. With this part disengaged, someone can make a suggestion and the victim will accept it no matter how much evidence to the contrary is all around them. If people are not informed hypnosis is being used and the right conditions are created, hypnotising a subject or even a group is extremely easy. Once you have entered into NLP you have agreed to give the power to think for yourself up. It is easy for the scammer to convince you to come back and spend more money.

There are also, of course, many other side effects to disconnecting yourself from reality.

Communication.

Several things about communicating with Christine struck me as very odd at the time. The first time we spoke on the phone again after all these years I was disappointed that her French accent was nearly gone, no mystery there she has been speaking English many years longer now. But she was speaking in a really fast babbling way. At the time I just thought she was exited. But I have since found internet sites about how to use NLP and other mind manipulation techniques for sadism. One mentioned that the victim will generally speak more quickly and at a higher pitch than normal.

When I met Christine she wouldn’t let me get a word in edgeways, she simply talked over me. At the time I thought she was being extremely rude and I asked her not to do that. She told me “I have to be like that for work.” Well if you work somewhere that rudeness like that is normal you need a new job. Now again NLP explains this behaviour, the victim is programmed not to accept any input. This helps prevent reality getting in. NLP victims are taught to ignore anything that challenges their belief system by ignoring it. This again just manifests in rudeness, being ignored is the ultimate insult, it is telling you that you are not even worthy of a response.

Christine also spoke with a very loud voice, even shouting in normal conversation, I kept asking her to stop shouting but she just said she wasn’t. There was no tone variation, she spoke totally without any emotional clues. This is very reminiscent of watching people who have been hypnotised on TV entertainment shows. There was even a glazed look in her eyes, a distant look, it was very freaky at the time, like someone had stolen her soul (maybe they have). I kept asking if there was something wrong but she didn’t have a clue what I was on about. Again knowing now what has happened to her I can see she was showing the symptoms of someone under the influence of hypnosis.
 

Manipulation.

NLP teaches its disciples many manipulation techniques and studies have shown that those exposed to NLP become highly manipulative. The disconnection of the emotional part of the brain means that they suffer no moral qualms in using this as a weapon to get what they want and no thought is given to the damage they may do to those around them.
Christine is now an extremely manipulative person. She will give out advice on how to lie to get what you want from life. She told me to lie on my CV to hide long periods out of work, just like she does. She told me to lie to my doctor to get free cosmetic dentistry.
Christine manipulated me by not telling me she had a boyfriend, or I never would have invited her into my home. Once here she manipulated me by making me think she wanted us to get back together, even hinting at marriage, when in fact that thought was never in her mind.

Narcissism.

Narcissism is very common in those exposed to NLP. NLP claims to improve people through positive thinking. However if taken too far this can cause the victim appear arrogant and self-absorbed. Typical tells are when someone is compelled to talk about themselves all the time, isn’t interested in hearing about anyone else, always points the conversation back to them by speaking over people and repeatedly regales the same achievements over again.
It’s impossible for Christine not drop the fact that she once managed a large team of people at DHL into conversation several times an hour. Christine’s proudest achievement of course is the possession of her NLP Practitioner “certificate”. It’s the first thing mentioned on her Linkedin page, although she did misspell it “practioner”. She is too self-absorbed to even notice. That doesn’t create a good impression for prospective employers, although if they knew what NLP is that would be far worse.

Sadism.

People exposed to NLP often show a sadistic nature. Christine is now able to take joy in others suffering and misery and even laugh about it.

 

Materialism.

Once the victim has been NLP’d they will ruthlessly seek to achieve their goals with no regard for anything else. These goals are typically materialist, in Christine’s case it is a job in Switzerland and a big house. This manifests in the victim appearing to be selfish in nature. Being happy in life cannot be found through materialism, those of us that have been there done that know that real happiness can only be found in human relationships. Christine even laid down me getting rich again as a condition of marriage.

Sensitivity and Emotion.

The area of the brain concerned with sensitivity and emotion is one that is disconnected through hypnotism. Christine told me in her emails that she had learned to control her emotions. I see now that in fact she doesn’t have any at all.
NLP teaches the victim to use passive aggression to avoid arguments by simply pretending any other view or opinion that doesn’t fit their belief system does not exist. This is also known as the “wall of silence” and Christine has become a master of it.
This lack of emotion also causes the victim to seem insincere. One NLP technique is mimicry, it is designed to trick someone into trusting the NLP user, building rapport. If someone seems like you, you are more likely to trust them. This is practiced by them looking you directly in the eye from very close range and then following your every movement. Christine tried this out on me and I can say it was the creepiest thing that ever happened to me.

Memory Manipulation.

NLP teaches memory manipulation techniques, the victim blocks out bad memories and reinvents others in a more positive way. To start I thought it was nice how Christine had good memories of our times together when I could remember the same event in a less favourable light, like a weekend we spent in Edinburgh.

There were some things she couldn’t remember at all like cheating on me, or the time when I was taking her stuff round to her knew flat after she left me and her boyfriend, I didn’t know about, was hiding in the spare room and I was humiliated. It was a long time ago but surely she would remember at least that she had a boyfriend in Bethnal Green?

Christine has good reason for trying out such dangerous mind altering manipulation. It must have been hard going through the abortion and complications that would eventually lead to our last parting. (It wasn’t mine, I felt she was just using me as a shoulder to cry on and would leave me yet again as soon as she got over it, so I bailed first that time.)

But the negative side of deleting your bad memories is that you are not able to learn from your own mistakes. This is 50% of the input that helps us grow as human beings.

Is it Permanent?

NLP teaches a variety of techniques where the victim uses certain cues to produce certain behaviour.

From my interaction with Christine it seems that the victim of NLP is able to function normally for periods of time. After acting really weird and freaking me out for several hours she opened the bottle of wine we were going to have with dinner and was immediately noticeably different, after just one sip. Suddenly she could talk in a normal voice. We had two way conversation and reminisced about old times together. 

This was like the TV hypnotist had clicked his fingers and said the key phrase, Christine was suddenly fully conscious and able to be her old self. 

I’m not sure how much of the damage is permanent but I think it likely most is reversible.

 

Is NLP a Cult?

Whether or not NLP is a cult is again subject to much misinformation on the Internet, the cult members are very vocal in their denials. It cannot be denied however that NLP shows many of the characteristics of a cult.

Charismatic leader Richard Brandler was arrested for First Degree murder in 1988 and charged with the murder of his bookkeeper, who was also running a call-girl operation on the side. He had plunged headlong into cocaine addiction, and only he and his drug dealer (who was also the victim’s boyfriend) were present in her house when the shooting took place.

A crackpot of the first degree, every cult has one.

The practitioners have been “programmed” to believe the “programme”, giving them the right to “programme” others. That’s what cults do. Ever criticised NLP in front of a NLP practitioner? Like all fundamentalists they respond with the full force of the fanatic.

The use of scientific terminology to make it appear legitimate. The NLP expert will tell you that it is science. CAP, the regulatory body for UK advertising, has already slapped the wrists of those claiming that NLP is science. Yet, immune to the huge amount of scientific evidence showing that it is bogus, you will quickly hear them retreat to the idea that “science isn’t everything” or that the techniques “cannot be verified through clinical trials”. They can’t have it both ways.

Another clue that bellies NLP’s pseudo scientific nature is the frankly cult-like system of titles and ranks. The NLP hierarchy is rigorous. It’s hugely compelling to an insider, but from the outside looking in, it’s both amusing and worrying. People shell out thousands to be certified as a practitioner, master practitioner, trainer, master trainer, and beyond. Any given NLPer can have a string of letters after their name to rival an Oxford don. What they won’t tell you is that half of those “certifications” may have been picked up on weekend course, and the other half could have been easily bought online.

Cults socially isolate people and NLP has installed in Christine the need to be a “private person”. She has hidden her friends on Facebook so they cannot see who the others are. I thought this very odd and asked her what or who had happened to her to make her do this, the wall of silence was the response. Of course she couldn’t answer, this is designed to avoid the possibility of her friends getting together to stage an intervention. The wall of silence only infuriated me and made me determined to find out.

Christine didn’t want to talk about anybody from the past. “They are not part of my life anymore”. “The past is past move on”. Again designed to isolate the victim from anyone who can see the damage being done by the cult.

Victims are encouraged only to socialise with fellow members of the cult. When I met Christine at Heathrow airport she immediately started acting strangely as if she was afraid. I asked what was wrong “It’s not you” was the only response I was able to illicit before the wall of silence fell. It wasn’t her boyfriend she was about to cheat on that she was scared of it was her cult.

Why did she come to London at all? Was it something deep inside trying to escape the grip of NLP?
I wish I had known then the sad fate that had befallen her. Most of all I wish I knew how to save her now. She once was a truly alive person, warm caring and passionate, now she is just programmed skin and bones.

Meeting the brainwashed zombie my ex-girlfriend has been NLP’d into was a deeply traumatic experience at a time when I had enough problems of my own. I lashed out in anger for months, in a vain attempt to get through to her. Now I have investigated NLP and can understand what happened to her. All the illogical behaviour and plain weird views she holds became an obvious picture, like all the pieces of a jigsaw puzzle falling into place. My attempts to get past the defences programmed into her have proved futile.
I am compelled to tell the story in hope of saving others from being drawn in by the false promises of quick fixes to life’s problems. I had a lucky escape myself, she nearly had me believing for a while. As she put it “well some poeple dont like it , it cant appeal to everyone.” NLP is a dangerous fraud, be warned.

I get angry when people are rude to me, I get angry when people lie to me and I get angry when people try to manipulate me. That is what the NLP cult does, it takes ordinary decent people and turns them into rude, manipulative liars that are completely selfish, materialistic and have no regard for human kind.

 

Christine Cardon NLP Practitioner

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Christine Cardon NLP Practitioner
Having met Christine Cardon recently after a very long parting of ways I was struck how her attitudes and behaviour had changed. She claims to have gone to university to study Neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) and to have been improved her life by reading. Upon questioning “The Secret” was offered as the source of all knowledge.

Now I know a little of psychology and that it is generally accepted that NLP has no scientific merit, it was big in the 1970’s and died out when all attempts to prove it’s validity failed. There are many organisations offering courses in NLP but Universities teach real psychology some proven like cognitive science and of course Freud who is a matter of opinion.

The scientific community has much of interests say on NLP.

Finally, it is common (based on the reported experience of our own students) for people to have experienced NLP as overly instrumental and even `manipulative’. This is concerning and interesting. One possible source may be the influence of, or peoples’ perceptions of, the founders. Bandler is often characterised as a maverick genius, prepared to take outrageous actions in order to achieve an outcome (see McLendon 1989); and Grinder was (also according to McLendon 1989 p.9a) involved in covert activities in connection with the US army. Equally, NLP is a technology easily available to members of the public, and it may be seized upon to achieve `quick fixes’. NLP is no different from other related fields of practice in that wide variations in style of usage may exist. What is interesting is that instrumental use of NLP, in our view, violates the (systemic) presuppositions on which it is purportedly based.


Source Leeds University http://www.leeds.ac.uk/educol/documents/00003319.htm
Scientific reviews of NLP show it contains numerous factual errors and fails to produce results asserted by proponents. According to Devilly NLP has had a decline in prevalence since the 1970s. Criticisms go beyond lack of empirical evidence for effectiveness, saying NLP exhibits pseudoscientific characteristics title, concepts and terminology. NLP serves as an example of pseudoscience for facilitating the teaching of scientific literacy at the professional and university level. NLP also appears on peer reviewed expert-consensus based lists of discredited interventions. In research designed to identify the “quack factor” in modern mental health practice, Norcross et al. (2006) list NLP as possibly or probably discredited for treatment of behavioural problems. Norcross et al. (2010) list NLP in the top ten most discredited interventions, and Glasner-Edwards and Rawson (2010) list NLP as “certainly discredited.”
Source Wikipedia http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neuro-linguistic_programming

I noticed a tendency towards Passive Aggressive Behaviour a recognised behavioural disorder. At first I thought it was down to The Secret but the more I look into NLP the more I suspect it was a very bad course Christine took.

I’ll tell more and give examples of Christine Cardon’s passive aggressive tendencies later but for now another excerpt from Wikipedia.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Passive-aggressive_behavior

Passive-aggressive behavior

Passive-aggressive behaviour is a category of interpersonal interactions characterised by an obstructionist or hostile manner that indicates aggression, or, in more general terms, expressing aggression in non-assertive, subtle (that is, passive or indirect) ways. It can be seen in some cases as a personality trait or disorder marked by a pervasive pattern of negative attitudes and passive, usually disavowed, resistance in interpersonal or occupational situations.

Signs and symptoms

The book “Living with the Passive-aggressive Man” lists 11 observations that may help identify passive-aggressive behaviour:

· Ambiguity and cryptic speech: a means of creating a feeling of insecurity in others or of disguising one’s own insecurities;
· Intentional inefficiency, e.g. being late or forgetting things, as a way to exert control or to punish;
· Convenient forgetfulness: to win any argument with a dishonest denial of actual events;
· Cold shoulder response: withdrawing into long silences to avoid either confronting or connecting with others.
· Fear of competition;
· Fear of dependency;
· Fear of intimacy as a means to act out anger: the passive-aggressive often cannot trust; because of this, they guard themselves against becoming intimately attached to someone;
· Making chaotic situations;
· Making excuses for non–performance;
· Obstructionism;
· Sulking;
· Victimization response: instead of recognizing one’s own weaknesses, tendency to blame others for own failures.

A passive-aggressive person may not display all of these behaviours.

 

Learn to Speak Christine Cardon

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Learn to speak Christine Cardon

The flirting stage.

“I got married in UK just before moving to NL, we stayed together about 8 years and we just grew appart so we decided to part ways…..
…..I have no kids only a cat (easier and cheaper).”

= I have a boyfriend but don’t want you to know that as I want to fuck you.
 

After the deed.

Advice and warnings:


“Be carefull what oyu pu on FB people see can see it especially potiental employer , i hope that there is no mention of me as i absolutly dont want people to know what i do or dont do. Even people that i do know same for the one i dont . AM very private person. I am not saying that you did i am just telling you how i am. hope u understand”
= I have a lot to hide, I don’t want people to know what I do as I am ashamed of what I do.

As for me, I didn’t take Christine’s advice, I’m proud of myself and what I do. My life is open for all to see. I never did get to introduce Christine to my friends or meet hers, well she had made it clear she didn’t what them to know me, by ignoring any request to do so.


Excuses for not friending me on Facebook:

“Facebook is crap”
= I have to hide my friends and block them from posting on my timeline as I shit on them and I can’t risk that they might say something about me.

“It’s really not my priority …. don’t take this the wrong way I say that to my friends also when they nag me.”

= I don’t care about the people I pretend to be friends with, I just think about myself.

There is no right way to take that.

 


Christine Cardon is fluent in 3 languages, French, English and Bullshit.

Christine Cardon Attitude to People

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When I first met Christine Cardon she had a badge with following written on it.

 
 
 
It’s an old Mae West quote and summed up Christine very well. Unfortunately people change.
 
When Christine Cardon came to visit me I was surprised to find that it was only for a goodbye fuck. I was even more surprised with her new attitudes. She told me she really didn’t care at all for people, she prefers animals. Well I found out that it was not just words she really does think that and her actions go to prove it.

 

 

 

Christine Cardon is now a selfish bitch who doesn’t give a fuck about anyone but herself.

Christine Cardon is Still Looking for the BBD.

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The BBD (Bigger Better Deal) is something a proportion of women are always looking for no matter how happy or in love they claim to be with their current boyfriend or husband.

The night I first met Christine Cardon I was in a night club in Leicester Square celebrating a friend’s birthday. I saw her across the dance floor looking really hot in her little black dress. Soon I was dancing with her and I felt a tap on my shoulder and some guy tells me “hands off I brought her here”. I turned away, no problem. Then Christine talks to the guy, he leaves and then she’s dancing with me again.

I was only 19 years old and had no experience of the ways of women at that time so I didn’t think much about that. I asked her and she told me he was just some guy that chatted her up in the bar she was in earlier.

Now I see that Christine Cardon hasn’t changed at all. She has a boyfriend somewhere hidden away and doesn’t want the world to know about it because she’s still always looking for the BBD.

Christine Cardon 1989 Bayswater
 

 

Christine Cardon and the Art of Conversation

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I would not have published any of this if Christine Cardon had simply had a civilized conversation with me and discussed what had happened between us. But civilized conversation is impossible with the new model Christine Cardon.

Firstly when confronted with anything opposing her view she will talk over you so as you cannot get a word in. If you continue to try and make a point she will talk louder and louder.

On email Christine has another technique, simply ignore whatever part of the email she doesn’t want to deal with and just respond to the rest.

If you catch her unawares on the phone and actually get a chance to say something you will be met with a wall of silence.

All techniques of the passive aggressive with NLP training in manipulation.

Well I had no option. This blog is my only way of making Christine Cardon hear me. She has a weakness, her desire to be a private person, to hide and hope no one can see through the mask she wears and find the real Christine Cardon underneath. So she keeps a close eye on her web presence even uses mylife.com (or nolife.com as it should be called).

It is all such a shame she was a very different person before, sweet and caring although with a fiery temper, so much fun to be with unlike the cold heartless control freak she is now.

Sweet Christine Cardon.
 
 
 

Marry Christine Cardon

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Marry Christine Cardon
 







Why be alone this Valentine ’s Day when anyone can marry Christine Cardon. When she recently visited me here in London she told me how. There is a hotel in Sicily and any man that takes her there she will marry. It’s nearly that simple but there is one stipulation, you must be rich.
So if you are lonely and looking for a gold digger Christine Cardon is for you.
 
This is where….. Grand Hotel San Pietro
 
 
 
NB: Chrsitine Cardon’s word is not to be taked at face value and she may well change her mind after she has got whatever it was she wanted from you.
(Originally published 14th Feb but Christine Cardon tried to silence me again. She will eventually learn that will only make me louder.)
 


NLP update: Click here for more on NLP deception techniques (that’s lying to you and me).

How Do You Get Someone To Stop?

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How do you get someone to stop doing something you don’t like?

Logical method: Ask them to stop.
Christine Cardon method: Ignore them.

Christine Cardon Lyon 1989
Christine Cardon Lyon 1989

NLP Update

NLP explains everything about the weirdo Christine Cardon has become. NLP turns its’ victims into delusional fantasists. In order to do this they have to ignore all reality around them.

NLP Method of Problem Solving.

 

Irony at its Finest

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When I was in a terrible state of confusion and anger over the way Christine Cardon had treated me she posted the picture below on Facebook. When I have finished telling our story you will see that it’s now my time to turnaround and the hunted will become the hunter.   

If you don’t change direction, you will end up where you’re going. – Lao Tzu

Turnaround

 
 
 

Well I’ve been on the wrong end of Christine Cardon’s bullying for far too long and now I’m telling the world what she is like. The last blog was taken down after she complained about it. It was misinterpreted as impersonating her, this blog is clearly about, not by Christine Cardon so freedom of speech will win the day.

Christine Cardon Smile